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Happy Birthday, Gryphon.
May this year bring all the blessings you deserve.
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Woo, so much to do. "Fall Fest" at Em's Kindy today, then a party tonight. Neighborhood "Spook Parade and Party" tomorrow after the kid's swim lesson, then all of the baking and pre-cooking and finishing the multimedia geneology project for our Samhain circle.
It's a "remember-y" kind of day today, and I'm in a bit of a strange introspective place. For every joy that surrounds me now, and ever amazing blessing I can count, there are the flip-side sorrows and regrets and aching sadnesses that never seem to heal. I am so undeserving of the wonderful life I've been gifted with, but I try EVERY day to become more deserving, and more appreciative, and I hope some day I will feel a bit more worthy.
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So, yeah, I'm liking Guild Wars. Though I've really only scratched the surface and I'm entirely horrid at even basic play at the moment. But it gives me giggles and keeps me interested and I've never even had that much of a connection with a video game before. Now if I can only learn how to read the map and go in the right direction without wandering so pitifully.
~L |
So, Dave went out to get groceries and school supplies for Em and came home with my very first every video game. I don't know what in the world has made me want to play a MMORPG, but I DO...so, for my 30th birthday (Aug 25th), I'm gonna learn how to play a game.
Now to figure out to play and then, hopefully, find some people to play with me since I've heard it's not easy to play alone.
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Jun. 27th, 2005 @ 11:32 am
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Yeah, I'm going to journal my eating again. It's gotten pretty scary around here with the weight gaining, kidney stoppage, etc. I HAVE to get back on track.
Food will go behind the cut, hopefully.
Brunch: 5.5 points total
2 pieces toast with laughing cow and bacon- 3.5 points
Orange Fruit2O to drink-0 points
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Yay-hoo! (insert sarcasm icon here)
It's Tri-Cities Chinese School picnic in the park day! Sooo, load'em up kids. Let's go sit in the heat with the bugs and the screaming, rampaging children and play fly on the wall while all the adults around speak anything BUT English in an effort to completely avoid conversation with the incredibly lily-white and obviously unwelcome interloper.
I love what Tri-Cities school does for my kids. I love the fact that they're becoming more adept in the language and culture that is half of their ancestoral inheritance. But I HATE being alone in a freaking crowd, especially if I have to be sweaty and bug-bitten at the same time.
Pictures to follow soon, I'm sure.
~L
Jun. 26th, 2005 @ 09:55 am
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So, yeah, I stopped blogging for months and months. I was in my self-induced hermit mode. Things were rough from March to May and I just really didn't want to have to thing about it as much as I would have if I'd tried to set it down in writing.
But SUMMER is here, and things are beginning to feel "ok" again and I really need the release and the accountability that keeping a daily journal entails.
Judy (Dave's Sister) is down for a couple of days to get a break from the trauma-drama that surrounds my inlaws house at the moment. It's good to have someone else in the house during the day, even if she is holed up in the guest room doing her homework.
Emily and Nate are doing very well with our new schooling routine. We're doing four 30 minute school sessions each day, seperated by other life-type activities. ((You know, meals and chores and potty trips.))
I'm so impressed with Nate's progress toward reading independently. I hadn't expected him to be reading this early.
Anna is almost completely recovered from her horrible week of accidents and illness. Her Roseola rash has almost completely faded, the tooth that has been torturing her finally broke the skin, and her smashed finger is mending up and can bend again. My poor baby was so miserable for a few days. It's nice that she is starting to be perky again. And VERY nice that she's getting back to her sleep schedule and sleeping through the night.
I'd better get back to my chores so that I can have the house semi-decent when the television repair fellow gets here this afternoon.
~L
Jun. 20th, 2005 @ 11:01 am
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I've been here for too long, and will be here for too much longer.
I don't imagine we will make it home before the first week in May. Mom can't even get out of bed anymore. She's had to have a potty chair put in the bedroom again, and really just can't even stand up by herself for long at all.
We've had happy days and sad days. Most days though, are just days we muddle through together. The kids are thrilled with cousins, horses, dogs, chickens, cats and the freedom to run all over the farm.
The internet connection here tops out at 14.4, though, even on my brand new laptop. I can't connect to any type of bulletin board or my email server (because there's too much email clogging it up...grrr). It will probably take half the night to post this message.
Home is calling, but there's much to be done here before I can answer.
Apr. 18th, 2005 @ 11:31 pm
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This is finally "it". After nearly two weeks of prodromial labor, a few false alarms, and a great deal of stress on the part of our entire family, Jessica is FINALLY in the hospital to deliver her baby. We're still under the assumption that she'll be a baby girl, but surprises have happened before and will happen again, I'm sure.
I'm excited, but feel very disconnected from everything since I'm nearly 700 miles away. This means I have to start packing, though, since I'll be heading home to Kentucky for at least 2 or 3 weeks very soon. My baby brother will very soon be someone's father. That's just a little unsettling.
For Katelynn-
I hope you are born with your father's energy and your mother's grace.
I hope you inherit your laugh from your Granny Sandy. Her laugh is like tiny sprinkles of cold rain in the middle of July.
I hope you are as strong as your Papaw Chet. He's humbly carried our world on his shoulders for a lifetime. He rarely stumbles and never falls.
I hope you have faith like your Great-Grandma Jewel, and fire like your Great-Grandma Auglee.
I hope you are as slow to anger as your Great-Uncle Wendell was, and as quick to fight for what you know is right.
I hope you are as inventive and curious as your Great-Grandpa Goms. I also hope you never decide to name your children after him!
I hope you are as stubborn as your Great-Grandpa Ruben, but more willing to bend into the arms of those who love you.
I hope you can compete like an Allen and sing like a Howard. I hope you will run with my children and rest in my arms with them when the thrills of childhood have worn you down. I hope you never have nightmares but, if you do, I hope there is always someone to squeeze you if you wake up in tears. I hope that you'll always believe you are beautiful, and always see the beauty in your family and friends. I hope you are healthy and never face the battles that our family has struggled through in the past.
You are blessed to be born in a family with hearts as big as the sky, and roots that grow deep into the mountains you will call home. Embrace your heritage and let it's colors paint you and fill you, because struggling will only cut you off from the things you need the most when you are grown and gone. Find comfort in your big, crazy clan and wrap yourself in the warmth of cousins and kin. Don't let them be strangers. There are already far too many strangers who will walk through your life, so make sure you have these perfect and precious hands to hold. Linking yourself to your family will help you find a way home if you ever feel lost. Listen to your parents when they talk to you about faith. Let your heart stay open to the whispers of that faith, and fill your soul with it's peace and presense. Life without faith is hard, cold and nearly empty and it is so much harder to pick up the pieces of a broken spirit than it is to keep it whole in the first place.
I could talk to you forever and still not be able to tell you everything you need to know. Tonight, while you are still struggling to find your way into this world, I am filling the space that will some day be yours with blessings and hopes and prayers and advice that I have not even thought to offer my own children. Your life will be different than their lives. You will be unique to them, because you are a part of a heritage that they can only see in passing, and will never fully understand. You are a piece of what I would wish for them, if things were different. You are an Allen, living among Allens, in a place where you will always be at home. They can only visit that place, both physically and emotionally. That is a gift your Father and Mother are giving you that I would have loved to be able to give to your cousins, so please take full advantage of all it has to offer you as you grow up.
I hope you always know how much I love you.
~Leigh
Apr. 5th, 2005 @ 02:11 am
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I am not afraid, and I don't even WANT to sleep (despite burning eyes, shaking hands, and a massive headache). I promise I'll write a fluffy, light post about the nice things that have been going on in my life soon. Because, honestly, there have been some really great things happening when the sun's up. The days are so sweet, lately, which only makes these hellish nights harder to handle.
The night-terrors are getting so much worse recently. The terror is lasting longer after I wake up, and I'm not able to shake off the cold as quickly. What kind of messed up mental issues do I have that would make me dream of sacrificing one of my children to save the others? I have a variation of that particular freak-out at least every other night now. Sometimes I'll have variations on that same scene twice in one night if I actually lay down to try to sleep. What kind of torture am I living in that makes me watch my children die every time I fall asleep?
So, technically, I don't have insomnia. I'm sleepy. Oh, I am so sleepy. I fight to keep my eyes open because I'm haunted. I'm afraid of sleep. There's no pill for this, either. Sleeping pills will help with the deprivation, but I end up waking up even worse because I haven't been able to escape the dreaming.
On a much better note, sleeping close to Dave definately helps. The kids slept with Dave's parents this weekend and I could get 2-3 hour stretches between the nightmares. Dave's like a safe, light place that I can bury myself in till morning.
~L
Apr. 4th, 2005 @ 01:53 am
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